Intent
The intent of this document is to share a trove of Biblical resources on masculinity and provide a heads up on common questions people have wrestled with.
Lead
- Spiritual
- Men will initiate efforts for discipleship, service, church membership
- Set the example of loving, honoring, and serving Christ with reverence and humility
- Men will initiate efforts to repent, confess, reconcile, and forgive one another
- Men will set the rhythm of devotions (reading, prayer, song) and be the spiritual thermostat of the house (setting the spiritual climate and tone)
- Men will bring up the tough conversations
- Physical
- Men will take the intiative to get things done (around the house, taxes, planning trips, dates)
- Men will set a positive example, demonstrating integrity, hard work, and responsibility.
- Men will engage in the education and discipline of children, ensuring they grow in knowledge and character.
Protect
- Spiritual
- Men will guard against false teachings and ideologies that could lead the family or community astray in social media, TV shows, movies, podcasts, books, sermons
- Men will pray for spiritual protection against the schemes of the devil and the influences of the sinful world.
- Physical
- Men will ensure the safety of the family or community from physical harm or danger.
- Men will take steps to secure the home or community environment against physical threats.
- Men will be willing to stand up for, defend, and even die for those under your care from physical/emotional/mental harm.
Provide
- Spiritual
- Men will provide spiritual nourishment through regular engagement with the Word of God and prayer.
- Men will offer wisdom and counsel based on Scripture to guide others through life’s challenges and decisions.
- Physical
- Men will ensure the physical needs of the family or community are met, such as food, shelter, and safety.
- Men will work diligently to support those under his care, whether through employment or other means of provision.
- Men will plan for the future, including savings and investments, to secure the well-being of the family or community.
Biblical Resources on Masculinity
Q&A
- What a Man is Not - Paul Washer
- Are you Ready for a Relationship? - Paul Washer
- A Young Man’s Attitude Towards Women - Paul Washer
Articles
- The Marks of Manhood Part 1
- The Marks of Manhood Part 2
- Husbands Who Love Like Christ and the Wives Who Submit to Them - John Piper
- Act Like Men by Greg Morse
- Roast What You Kill by Greg Morse
- Hints To Young Men - J.C. Ryle